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Obituary
Nuncia "Nancy" Saberon Arakaki
Nuncia "Nancy" Saberon Arakaki, 80, of Kaneohe, a retired Hairdresser and Cosmetologist, passed away on January 3, 2021 (non-covid related). She is survived by her husband of 60 years, Francis Y. Arakaki; son Delwayne Arakaki, daughters Francine Kawakami, T. Kazume Martin, & Amber Suhas; 12 grand-children; 4 great-grandchildren; and siblings Atanasio, Celestina, and Gabriel Saberon.
Please join us for the Celebration of Life service in honor of our mom, on Sunday, February 28, 2021
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Thank you for joining us during the service. If you missed it you can still see it at the church website below for a short time.
You can also see the recording below under the file section of this website (scroll down)
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CONDOLENCES & MEMORIES SHARED
Pettra Stark
Deepest Condolences to the Arakaki Ohana. Love Nancy, she was a very energetic and funny person. Always made me feel like her little sister. I am Kuulei Badua sister. Soar with the angels & I'll see you on the other side. Aloha.
KARL SEFF
Somehow, at a monthly meeting of the Cactus and Succulent Society of Hawaii (CSSH), I received a small Aloe duckeri plant from Nancy. I planted it at my house, it grew well, and one day it produced an impressive display of red flowers about two or three times as large as the plant. I was impressed. So I took a picture and had a 5 x 7 color print made to give to Nancy. But I had a plan. I covered up the inforescence with a piece of paper. First I was going to show her how big her plant had gotten, and then I was going to flip away the paper to show her the flowers. At the next CSSH meeting, I got Nancy's attention and showed her the picture. When she quickly reached over to flip the paper away, I pushed her hand away. When I looked up to see how she had taken that, I saw a Big wall-to-wall Nancy smile. We weren't co-CSSH members any more; we were more like bruddah/seestah. Then I said what I had to say, flipped the paper away, we talked about the whole picture, which I gave to her.
After that, she learned quickly that I was a vegan and was careful to point out which snacks, which we enjoyed at intermission, were "safe" for me to eat. Impressively, she would worry that there might not be enough for me at some meetings, and brought something just for me. Nobody else went thaaaaat far. But Nancy did. I felt the love.
A L O H A Nancy.
Kaiulani Clifford (Walsh)
My deepest sympathies go out to you, Arakaki family. Mrs. Arakaki was the most thoughtful, kind-hearted adult I remember while growing up in the neighborhood.
I remember summer after 3rd grade, where I practically lived at your house and I never wanted to go home! I loved being with your family and seeing the love your parents shared with each other and with all of you. Whether we “helped” your mom make lumpia or Mochi bars for potluck at Seventh Day Adventist Church, braided wigs on the foam mannequin heads at your mom’s salon, glazed ceramics in your living room, played Barbie mansion under the dining room table or played Casino at the coffee table, your mom and dad would always make me feel welcome with a smile and a hug around the shoulders. I’m not sure how long I stayed, but I never wanted it to end! Amber convinced your mom to call my mom to ask for permission to stay longer!
Those childhood memories and many more will never be forgotten, as I was introduced to so much culture, art, creativity and the love of your family that I will always cherish.
With much Aloha,
Kai
I will always have the fondest memories of Aunty Nancy. She was a kind and generous woman. As a child filled with wonder, I remember visiting her home in Hawaii to make arts and crafts. Thank you Nancy for teaching me the importance of a handmade photo album. The memories I have of you are very special to me. I hope can now Rest In Peace.
Jessica Plain (Whitworth)
Auntie Nancy was always ready with a story and a hug for us and our children too. One of my favorite memories is when Auntie Nancy came by our house in the mid 2000s and spent time showing us how to make Mochiko garlic chicken. So. Ono.
No matter what she was doing Auntie Nancy always seemed to have time to share her knowledge on cooking, haircutting, arts and especially gardening. Pandita and I loved her showing us around the Orchid show at the Armory. So many beautiful flowers and now beautiful memories. With love and Aloha,
Al and Pandita Whitworth
I fondly remember aunties home in Kaneohe with the POOL! I loved going there and sprinting time with my cousins playing and eating! Aunty was a real jokester always teasing me about something! But mostly always telling me I needed to cut my hair! When I finally gave in to a trim. She always cut it WAYYY shorter and somehow convinced me it was better !!! Love and miss u always! Fly high
-- Lika
Daniel and Ai
Our most sincere condolences to the Arakaki family. Rest in peace auntie Nancy. You will be missed. Sending lots of love and aloha.
Sandra Whitworth
Sending peace, love, and sincere prayers to all her family and friends during this time. Aunty Nancy was an extraordinarily woman who was very gracious to me and my family. She gave me my first art class and inspired me in so many to keep going. It never ceased to amaze me in how energetic she was in living life to the fullest.
God took her home to give her a rest. We will miss her!!
Love & condolences,
Cousin Sandra, Jim, & family
Arcadio Saberon
There are so many memories and special stories about aunty Nancy, that I don't really know where to start. Like the time at auntie Sally's house when grandpa Saberon was still alive and we were all taking a picture and she commented on the ugly face I made. but most of all, the caring and attentive nature she showed when I went over to the house.. She would always make sure I didn't go hungry! Also back in the day when I had a full head of hair she would always be my go to person for a nice haircut! She was definitely my favorite aunt and I will miss her dearly! May she forever fly with the angels and rest in peace..
Kalani, Elizabeth and family
Nancy, a very talented sister-in-law, who gave so much of herself, unselfishingly, generously, and very caringly touched upon the hearts of many of us. Everything that she did, she did well and she gave, shared and genuinely supported. A woman who in her lifetime collected, and touched upon almost everything that blossomed into great endeavors. Nancy, I thank you for the many times we shared telephone conversations while you convalesced and while you were bed bound. We will meet again... Shirley Arakaki
Aunty Nancy was gifted with energy and talents! She could cook, bake, create ceramics and paint kapa (tapa) style, cut hair, and loved galivanting and was "the boss"! I slept over so much, that I literally thought I was living there at the Hikiwale house w/the pool! Uncle Francis was so mellow, and always accommodating. and had a soft and infectious smile! I was like the 5th child sleeping there so many times, and enjoyed tagging along with Fran, Tammy, and Amber when they went to accordion lessons, piano, etc......Delwayne and I used to love watching kung fu movies starring Bruce Lee and truly thank Aunty Nancy, Uncle Francis, Delwayne, Francine, Tammy, and Amber for giving me lifelong memories of such a loving Ohana.! God bless. Abby Brilhante
Barbara Alexander
My sincere condolences go out to the Arakaki and Saberon ohana.
When I was a newbie attending meetings of the HON Cactus & Succulent Society, there was Nancy's smiling face of welcome. What a perfect goodwill ambassadress she was. I later saw Nancy at the Holiday Craft Fair @ He'eia Elem. School and also at the Lanikai Holiday Craft Fairs. She and Francis had the most imaginative items on display/for sale, such as the melted (?) and fluted 78 rpm records to use as hanging planters. I think of Nancy & Francis each time I look at my planted ones.
I admired Nancy's fortitude after she became less mobile. Attending the C&SS meetings gave her seeming joy and even in her less than robust health, she still had that welcoming smile and was happy to chat.
You will be missed, Nancy.
Aloha, Barbara